So predictable

I remember at the Marriage Counselling i once attended at Toa Payoh...
we were told that the average duration for a relationship to start losing it's flame is once they hit the 2 years anniversary.

We were shown a clip where a couple were at a beach where an on going upgrading had caused the beach to be out of bounds to the public.
both stood hand in hands facing the beach picturing them both climbing over the walls to get to the other side. playing in the waters, taking a stroll along the beach, fun and laughters.
but that, would be what they'll do in the past.

Now 2 years down the road, all they do is argue about wasting money on a cake when they don't even have enough for bills. about the man not bringing enough home. responsibilites strained the relationship; things changes.

The counsellor then went on to tell us that the surroundings, places and people change. we should move on instead of living in the past, asking yourself "why is it we used to do this in the past but not now anymore" thinking bout those "we used tos..."



It has only been a week...
i hate repeated arguments. and now is definitely not the right time for arguments. i'm drained out after work and i can't afford to waste time and energy on disagreements.

I asked myself why is it before we started out, he has the time to talk to me on the phone every night yet now all he does is tell me his battery is flat or he's out drinking after work.
then i thought, alright... either you take it or you leave it.

Whatever it is, this is what i dislike about being with younger men. cos i think they still wanna go out and have fun, see the world. problem is, they do that but they don't allow their gfs to do so.
it's a little unfair to say that cos older man does go out and have fun too... but that's not the same. if i say it's not the same then it's not the same!



Reason why my relationship never last?
if it's not gonna work out, don't waste anymore time, just move on.