sighs. wtf, wtf, wtf...

It's been bothering me for such a long time...
man... i don't understand why some people has to be so childish.

I have difficulties multi tasking, is that even wrong?

I put the client on hold just to answer my colleague.
apparently, she was too blind to see that i was answering a call although she was beside me... constantly asking me the same question.

From the way she looked at me, i could tell that she wasn't exactly satisfied with the way i answered her.
i told her i don't know (i really don't!) repeated twice then rushed back to answer the call.


That's when it started...
Tuesdays is when she goes out to get lunch.
guess what she got for me?
TOFU

So what did i do?
tie the plastic bag up together with the rice, then throw it away.
i don't see a need for me to force myself to eat anything i don't like.
i remember very clearly that a week ago, another colleague had bought this (again) and i forced myself to finish them. although later, i went up to her and told her that i don't take tofus and please try to remember not to get them for me.

I can remember what my 5 bosses requested:
They prefer chicken thighs.
James don't take Lady Fingers
They don't like food that are high in cholesterol e.g. Sotong
I know which stalls they like and don't like
Accountant don't take Chicken or Duck Rice
reminds me, that the once famous Duck rice stall is now condemned by my bosses
Person in charge don't take Kang Kong

After working there for more than a year, it's actually not that difficult to remember what are their likes and dislikes.

Then i told her, "in future, you don't have to help me get my lunch when it's your duty"
is that wrong?
you got yourself and another colleague Chicken Rice, so is it not obvious that you got me TOFU soup on purpose?
what's more, i was told by my boss to get EVERYONE (including the boss and in charge) the same food, same dishes, nothing more, nothing less.

She stoop so low as to use such cheap tactics, and she expects me to put up with it?


It's already Thursday today, and she's not stopping her nonsenses.
she placed a thick stack of papers on my table during lunch time and demanded i do them after i'm done with my lunch when i'm free

I may be the youngest, but definitely not the weakest.

A few hours later, when i placed that big stack of papers back on her table and told her i'm too busy to help her...

She retorted:
"so free to talk on the phone, don't have time to tear the papers ah?!"
"these paper don't belongs to the company is it? you cannot tear them huh"
"i'd place them here and wait till you're free, YOU tear them"

So, is it not obvious that she's been keeping a look out at what i'm doing? does that means that she's very free but she just refuses to tear the papers?
i was on the phone, why? to check courses details and how to get there. she can go ahead and complain, i need not worry about that.
my person in charge isn't even upset about it, and my HR boss was the one helping me with the SDF stuffs. none of us complains when she hogs unto the phone and make endless phonecalls when finding a place to stay in Singapore, so who is she to tell me off when i was on the phone for less than 15 minutes.

Those plain papers of course belongs to the company, but i am not the one using it. she's the only one using it.
then that means, it's up to me whether or not i wanna help her tear those papers.

The last sentence said shows that she's out to attack me personally.


I really wanna go talk to my HR boss about it, cos he had reminded us countless times about having office poilitics when it's such a small scale company.
but i don't know how to voice it out, i really don't.
i know that he'll start frowning and then i'd start feeling panicky...

What if she changes her words and says that she said nothing like that?
What if my boss thinks that i'm over sensitive and selfish?

If i were to be told by my HR boss, to be magnanimous and just help her... should i tell him "这是原则上的问题"?
i would definitely help her if she didn't do those nasty things she did, said things like that.
cos i believe if i let this happen once, it'll definitely happen again.